
Looking for a quick Valentine icebreaker for your Women’s Ministry, small group, or Bible study?
These Valentine IF icebreaker questions are a fun way to celebrate the Valentine holiday at your women’s ministry event or Bible study meeting.
Your group members or attendees will learn more about one another as each answer is shared.
Here’s a sample of the Valentine IF Icebreaker Questions:
- If you could eat any Valentine treat without gaining weight, what would you choose to indulge in?
- If you had to share a box of chocolates with someone, who would you pick?
- If you could spend a day with any biblical couple, who would you choose and why?
This icebreaker pack includes 16 Valentine-themed questions and 6 faith-based, love-themed questions (best for groups of believers).

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Valentine IF Icebreaker Questions
Group size: 4 – 8 people per group
Time needed: 15 minutes
Supplies: Valentine If game cards
BEFORE THE GAME: Print and cut apart the game cards. Select the cards you want to use with your group.
Directions:
1. Say to the group, “Today/tonight you’re going to get to know the members of our group a little better as we all answer some Valentine-themed ‘IF’ questions. We’ll take turns drawing a card and answering questions such as:
- If you could eat any Valentine treat without gaining weight, what would you choose to indulge in?
- If you had to share a box of chocolates with someone, who would you pick?
- If you could spend a day with any biblical couple, who would you choose and why?
[If you’re only using the faith-focused questions, you may wish to say IF love-themed questions and only read the last example.]
Please go ahead a take a card from the bag/pile. Do we have a volunteer who would like to go first?”
2. Once everyone has answered a question, you are done.
OPTIONS:
- Consider putting one card at each person’s chair/space before your meeting/group/event begins. Most will appreciate having some time to think about their response (though you run the risk of missing out on spontaneous answers).
- If time permits, have everyone draw a second card.
- Rather than drawing cards, ask everyone to answer the same question.
TIPS:
- You may want to laminate the cards for repeated use.
- Give players the option of drawing a second card if they are uncomfortable answering the first question they have drawn.
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Happy Valentine’s Day!
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Valentine Icebreaker Questions
This sounds like a fun idea, Cyndee!