“Alright, everybody go around the room and introduce yourself.”
“Please tell us a little about yourself – how many kids you have, your husband’s name, and how long you’ve been attending First Baptist Church.”
Sigh.
My eyes always gloss over by the time the fourth person shares. Six kids. Four years. Two boys. What’s her husband’s name?
My head is swimming with numbers.
Surely there’s got to be a better way to do introductions at your next women’s ministry fellowship, small group, event, or Bible study.
I believe there is.
Great introductions:
- Provide points of connection between all members of the group.
- Include personal information that wouldn’t normally be shared during an initial conversation.
- Are memorable.
- Highlight experiences and preferences.
- Feature a personal opinion.
- Encourage creative and thoughtful responses.
I tend to favor two-part icebreaker questions for introductions. They encourage group members to go a bit deeper and reveal a bit more about themselves.
Take note, these are purposefully not spiritual questions so as not to cause discomfort.
How to use these 31 icebreaker questions for introductions:
The next time you instruct a group to introduce themselves, ask them to share their name and the answer to one of the questions below.
Some people will appreciate the question written on the board before the request is made as it gives them time to think through their response.
Either way, give them time to think by answering the question yourself first and then ask for a volunteer to go next.
Click the button below to access the PDF with the 31 questions.
31 Great Icebreaker Questions for Introductions
- If money were no object, what would you do with your life?
- What’s one of your pet peeves?
- If you could host a talk show, who would be your first guest?
- What are you most passionate about?
- What is your favorite thing to spend money on?
- What is your favorite color and how does that color make you feel?
- Which household chore do you dread the most?
- What’s your favorite time of day and why?
- What’s one of your favorite movies and which character in the movie is most like you?
- What are three of your favorite foods?
- What is your favorite outdoor activity?
- If finances and time were not an object, what hobby would you adopt and why?
- What is a favorite memory you have from high school?
- What was your favorite class in school and why?
- Share one thing that you love to do that you get to do nearly every day.
- What is one important skill every person should master?
- What is your favorite local restaurant and the meal you most enjoy eating when there?
- If you could live in any sitcom, which one would it be?
- How would you spend 1 million dollars?
- Name two things you consider yourself to be very good at.
- What’s the best dessert you’ve ever had?
- What are your three favorite smells?
- If you were in the Miss America talent competition, what would your talent be?
- If you had one extra hour of free time a day, how would you use it?
- When was the last time you did something for the first time? What was it?
- If you could be anywhere, doing anything right now, where would you be and what would you be doing?
- If you joined the circus, what act would you most want to perform?
- What aspect of your daily routine do you look forward to the most?
- What is your favorite day of the year?
- What is something you have that is of sentimental value?
- What one thing (modern convenience) could you not live without?
As your group shares seemingly random information with each other, you’ll be amazed at the conversations it spurs and the connection points that are uncovered.
Want to easily print off these questions? Click here for a free PDF.
You may also want to read:
Why Women’s Ministry Events Need Great Icebreakers
Why I Don’t Do Bible Games
10 Things Icebreakers Should Not Do
Master List of Icebreakers and Games
I recently was asked to be on the Women’s Ministry team in a Berean Church in Grenada, Ca. I didn’t know any particulars about WM. I am not afraid to jump in and help.
Shortly after joining the team, two seasoned leaders resigned. That left the team with three new leaders and an active missionary member (absent due to mission).
Your information from the podcasts has given me serious hope! There is a season of rediscovery, rebuilding and reframing this team. I am ready to approach our pastor with confidence when it comes to WM.
My downfall is getting an idea, PRAYING over the idea, then waiting for HIS lead/response.
Thank you for your podcasts and many free resources!
Debbie, thank you for your sweet note! I am glad to hear you’ve found my resources to be helpful. Praying the Lord will continue to direct your steps!
For a window’s group something fun and funny!
Dolores, you’ll find a complete list of the icebreakers on my site here – https://womensministrytoolbox.com/icebreakers-games/.
Fun, in part, relies on the person that’s leading the icebreaker game. While there are often laughs, my goal with these games is for women to make connections through sharing experiences and personal preferences.
I’d suggest checking out Night at the Museum and Road Trip.
I was getting stressed preparing for another new Bible study to start. Even though I’ve been doing this for several years, I was feeling ill-prepared and uncertain about the first meeting tomorrow. I’m thanking God for directing me to your Ice Breaker section. There are some really great questions that I would not have thought of otherwise. I’m looking forward to some laughter and fun get-to-know-each-other time before getting into the study. Thank you so much!!!
Linda, I’m so glad you found some great icebreaker questions to launch your new Bible study. 🙂 Praying God will bless your time in the Word together!
I love this website because he’s right get all my ideas for questions for my group. I have a small group but let me tell you it’s saved my life I have no more friends around where I live they all moved away and went on with their lives. Now here I am so thank you????????????????♀️
Terri, thank you for your sweet note! <3 I am so sorry to hear that your friends have moved. Praying God will connect you with a new group of friends soon!
Your questions are fabulous! I do three questions a day every day so I’m running out of questions and then I found you Thank you????
Terri, you are so very welcome! Glad I could help! 🙂
I loved reading through all your games and ideas. Thank you for sharing such wonderful items!
Thank you, Kandee! <3